When you are a parent, one of the most frigtening experiences is when you can’t find your child. With three kids in the house it’s one we haved experienced twice, with one of the kids not being home at the time we agreed upon. You wait a bit longer, but when they don’t show up a sense of panic starts to develop and you go out of the house to try and locate them. When you can’t you really start to freak out and even if you try to stay positive you can’t help thinking of the worst. The family of Nicholas Barclay has experienced that situation and weren’t able to find him anymore. To their surprise the got a call a couple of years later out of Spain where they heard that Nicholas was found. They must have been overjoyed by it and went to pick him up, but as the title of this documentary already suggests, they didn’t meet the person who they thought they were meeting.
As I was watching this documentary I kept wondering why this family believed that this person was Nicholas, sure children change, but when that person is so very different, why would you hold on to that. Is it desperation, wanting to have someone to love or care for or something completely different? It’s very hard to understand. Director Bart Layton interviews all parties which were involved in the case and has crafted a thrilling movie to watch. It uses the interviews, mixed with archival footage and recreations (like the Thin Blue Line did) to paint a compelling picture of an unbelievable story.
After watching it I still had questions which weren’t answered, but I really didn’t mind that, because life doesn’t always give you an answer to everything. What it does is makes you think about the human psyche, what people are willing to believe and to find out which lengths an imposter is willing to go trhough in order to create a believable story. This is one of the best documentaries out this year and if you are a fan of the genre one you should be checking out.
This was one of my favorites docs of the year.
What was your feeling of how the family was portrayed towards the end of the doc regarding the disappearance of their son?
And rightly so, it was very well made. I think it was important to show that there was the possibility the might have been involved, but I did think it was a bit too heavy, especially since the person they suspected isn’t there anymore. Besides that it’s impossible to believe what Bourdin is telling since he is a “professional” liar.
Another great review here. This is definitely my favorite doc of the year. And I agree, although the film left questions unanswered, they are questions that VERY few people actually know the answers to. I love that the mystery keeps going.
Thanks a lot Alex! I would need to go through my documentary reviews this year to see if it’s my favorite, but it was a very good one.
Can’t wait to see this one Nostra. Such an intriguing and frightening story for any parent.
I couldn’t wait either as I heard a lot of interesting stuff about it. Hope you’ll be able to see it soon.
Hands down, my favorite documentary this year. This is the perfect example of how truth can be stranger than fiction. What a crazy story.
Yeah, it’s one of the best this year, agree with that and it’s an extremely strange story which makes it so fascinating to watch.